Emily Nagoski

***A NEW YORK TIMES BESTELLER*** An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research and brain science—that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy. Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a “pink pill” for women to function like Viagra does for men. So where is it? Well, for reasons this book makes crystal clear, that pill will never be the answer—but as a result of the research that’s gone into it, scientists in the last few years have learned more about how women’s sexuality works than we ever thought possible, and Come as You Are explains it all. The first lesson in this essential, transformative book by Dr. Emily Nagoski is that every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world. So we never need to judge ourselves based on others’ experiences. Because women vary, and that’s normal. Second lesson: sex happens in a context. And all the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a woman’s arousal, desire, and orgasm. Cutting-edge research across multiple disciplines tells us that the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life, is not what you do in bed or how you do it, but how you feel about it. Which means that stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it. Once you understand these factors, and how to influence them, you can create for yourself better sex and more profound pleasure than you ever thought possible. And Emily Nagoski can prove it.

The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

Come as You Are

Amelia Nagoski

"This groundbreaking book explains why women experience burnout differently than men--and provides a simple, science-based plan to help women minimize stress, manage emotions, and live a more joyful life. The gap between what it's really like to be a woman and what people expect women to be is a primary cause of burnout, because we exhaust ourselves trying to close the space between the two. How can you "love your body" when everything around you tells you you're inadequate? How do you "lean in" at work when you're already giving 110% and aren't recognized for it? How can you live happily and healthily in a world that is constantly telling you you're too fat, too needy, too noisy, and too selfish? Sisters Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., the bestselling author of Come as You Are, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA, are here to help end the cycle of overwhelm and exhaustion, and confront the obstacles that stand between women and well-being. With insights from the latest science, prescriptive advice, and helpful worksheets and exercises, Burnout reveals: - what you can do to complete the biological stress cycle--and return your body to a state of relaxation. - how to manage the "monitor" in your brain that regulates the emotion of frustration. - how the Bikini Industrial Complex makes it difficult for women to love their bodies--and how to fight back. - why rest, human connection, and befriending your inner critic are key to recovering from and preventing burnout"--

The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle

Burnout

A revised and updated edition of Emily Nagoski’s game-changing New York Times bestseller Come As You Are, featuring new information and research on mindfulness, desire, and pleasure that will radically transform your sex life. For much of the 20th and 21st centuries, women’s sexuality was an uncharted territory in science, studied far less frequently—and far less seriously—than its male counterpart. That is, until Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are, which used groundbreaking science and research to prove that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how they’re organized but how you feel about them. In the years since the book’s initial publication, countless women have learned through Nagoski’s accessible and informative guide that things like stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it—and that even if you don’t always feel like it, you are already sexually whole by just being yourself. This revised and updated edition continues that mission with new information and advanced research, demystifying and decoding the science of sex so that everyone can create a better sex life and discover more pleasure than you ever thought possible.

The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

'Emily Nagoski is a national treasure – helping us all understand how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives.'–Glennon Doyle, author of Untamed What does it really take to create lasting sexual connections in long-term relationships? Most couples struggle at some point to maintain their sexual connection. But a lot of the advice we are given on sex is either not very good or steeped in cultural assumptions and expectations that can end up hurting us. In Come Together, leading sexual wellness educator, Dr Emily Nagoski, takes on one of the most misunderstood subjects of all time - sex in long-term relationships - and shows us that most of what we've been taught about enjoying sex is wrong. Featuring inclusive stories and examples from a wide range of couples and individuals, you'll find out what great sex really looks like and the best way to overcome obstacles - including relationship conflicts, gendered beliefs about how sex 'should be' and body image worries. With insight, humour and empathy, Come Together will radically transform the way you approach sex and desire, and empower you to create long-term, fulfilling sexual connections.

The Science (and Art) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

Come Together

A Scientific Guide to Successful Relationships

A new, practical workbook from the New York Times bestselling author of Come As You Are that allows you to apply the book’s groundbreaking research and understanding of why and how women’s sexuality works to everyday life. In the twentieth century, women’s sexuality was seen as “Men’s Sexuality Lite”: basically the same, but not quite as good. From genital response to sexual desire to orgasm, we just couldn’t understand that complicated, inconsistent, crazy-making “lady business.” That is, until Emily Nagoski changed the game with her New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are. Using groundbreaking science and research, she proved that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how they’re organized, but how you feel about them. Which means that things like stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it. And, that even if you don’t yet feel that way, you are already sexually whole. Nagoski’s book changed countless women’s lives and approaches to sex, and now she offers the next step. The Come As You Are Workbook is a practical companion to this bestselling guide, filled with new activities, prompts, and thought-provoking examples to help you exercise and expand on the knowledge you’ve learned. This collection of worksheets, journaling prompts, illustrations, and diagrams is a practical and engaging companion for anyone who wants to further their understanding of their own bodies and sex lives.

A Practical Guide to the Science of Sex

The Come as You Are Workbook

An essential exploration of women's sexuality that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy. Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a 'pink pill' for women that would function like Viagra does for men.

Come as You are

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The Come As You Are Workbook & Come as You Are By Emily Nagoski 2 Books Collection Set

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Come As You Are : Revised and Updated

Seks geeft alleen echte voldoening wanneer je je lichaam begrijpt en weet wat je wilt. Op basis van recent wetenschappelijk onderzoek legt Emily Nagoski uit hoe je lichaam eigenlijk werkt, en het resultaat zal je verbazen. Want in tegenstelling tot bij mannen zijn de anatomische verschillen bij vrouwen veel groter – iedere vrouw reageert anders op seksuele stimuli. Seks heeft ook altijd een context: alledaagse problemen en stress spelen een grote rol als het gaat om opwinding, lust en orgasmen. Met dit boek kan iedere vrouw de seksualiteit ontdekken waarmee ze zich comfortabel voelt en zichzelf kan identificeren.

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Come as you are. Risveglia e trasforma la tua sessualità!

Είμαστε όλες φορτωμένες με πράγματα που πρέπει να κάνουμε, και εξουθενωμένες. Κι ωστόσο, την ίδια ώρα, ανησυχούμε πως δεν κάνουμε αρκετά. Το ρηξικέλευθο αυτό βιβλίο εξηγεί γιατί οι γυναίκες βιώνουν την υπερκόπωση διαφορετικά από τους άντρες – και παρουσιάζει ένα απλό σχέδιο, βασισμένο σε επιστημονικά δεδομένα, για να ελαχιστοποιήσουν οι γυναίκες το στρες, να διαχειριστούν τα συναισθήματα και να ζήσουν μια πιο χαρούμενη ζωή. Το κενό μεταξύ του πώς είναι πραγματικά να είσαι γυναίκα και του τι περιμένουν οι άνθρωποι να είναι οι γυναίκες είναι η βασική αιτία της υπερκόπωσης, επειδή εξουθενώνουμε τους εαυτούς μας στην προσπάθεια να κλείσουμε αυτό ακριβώς το κενό. Πώς μπορείς να «αγαπάς το σώμα σου» όταν όλα γύρω σου σου λένε ότι είσαι ανεπαρκής; Και πώς «βγαίνεις μπροστά» στη δουλειά σου όταν ήδη δίνεις το 110% και δεν σου αναγνωρίζεται; Πώς να ζήσεις χαρούμενη και υγιής σε έναν κόσμο που συνεχώς σου λέει πως παραείσαι χοντρή, απαιτητική, θορυβώδης και εγωίστρια; Οι συγγραφείς περιγράφουν πώς είναι να είσαι γυναίκα στις μέρες μας – και ποιες είναι οι σημαντικότερες δυσκολίες των γυναικών σήμερα. Παρουσιάζουν επίσης τους τομείς στους οποίους οι γυναίκες «διδάσκονται» να νιώθουν ανεπαρκείς και λίγες. Χρησιμοποιώντας σύγχρονα ερευνητικά δεδομένα και την πιο πρόσφατη βιβλιογραφία, δεν καταγράφουν απλώς τα προβλήματα, αλλά δίνουν πολύ πρακτικές και εφαρμόσιμες λύσεις – εύληπτες και επιστημονικές. Διαφωτιστικό, συμπονετικό και αισιόδοξο, το βιβλίο θα αλλάξει ριζικά το πώς αντιλαμβάνονται και διαχειρίζονται οι γυναίκες το στρες, εμψυχώνοντάς τες ώστε να τα καταφέρνουν υπό συνθήκες πίεσης και να χαίρονται ζωές ισορροπημένες και με νόημα. Κάθε γυναίκα θα βρει σε αυτές τις σελίδες κάτι που θα τη βοηθήσει – και θα της δώσει τη δύναμη να δημιουργήσει θετική και διαρκή αλλαγή.

Burnout: Πώς θα βγείτε από τον κύκλο του στρες

Das neue Frauen-Sex-Buch

Komm, wie du willst

"Burnout (2019) offers women an honest and practical look at the causes of their everyday stress and anxiety and the different ways in which science can help. Since women continue to face a very different set of expectations to men, it stands to reason that women also deal with a different set of expectations to men, it stands to reason that women also deal with a different form of burnout. Authors Emily and Amelia Nagoski offer scientific, as well as personal, insight into what's really going on and what women can do to not only persist but thrive in the modern world"--Synopsis, Page 5.

Summary & Study Guide of Burnout

La méthode de l’autrice du best-seller Je jouis comme je suis pour maintenir une vie sexuelle épanouie dans son couple « La passion des débuts finira par s’éteindre », « aux femmes de séduire les hommes », « aux hommes d’être des dieux du sexe », « s’il la trompe, c’est qu’elle ne fait aucun effort », « il faut faire l’amour tous les jours pour entretenir le désir »... Autant d’injonctions qui nous empêchent d’assumer notre sexualité et d’entretenir une vie de couple épanouie et durable au fil des années. Cet ouvrage décomplexant nous propose de se libérer de ces diktats pour mieux se comprendre mutuellement, faire la paix avec le sexe tel qu’il est dans la vraie vie, enfin s’écouter et (re)commencer à s’éclater à deux ! Et ce, quelles que soient nos préférences sexuelles. Vous apprendrez entre autres : • que la spontanéité en matière de sexe est en fait la pire des stratégies ; • quels termes utiliser pour se mettre dans l’ambiance et comment ne pas le prendre personnellement quand ça ne prend pas ; • comment comprendre son propre état d’esprit émotionnel et celui de son partenaire pour adopter ensemble un plan d’attaque. Emily Nagoski, américaine, est sexothérapeute depuis plus de 20 ans. Elle détient un doctorat en sciences comportementales et un master en thérapie, enseigne la sexualité et anime des TED Talks sur la sexualité heureuse, dont certains ont été vus plus de 3 millions de fois. Elle est l’autrice chez Leduc de Je jouis comme je suis (420 000 ex vendus dans le monde, traduit en 8 langues et best-seller du New York Times) et de Pourquoi les femmes font des burnout ? paru en février 2023 (490 000 ex vendus dans le monde, traduit en 25 langues et best-seller du New York Times). Emily Nagoski a lancé en novembre 2022 le podcast Come as you are, qui s’est d’emblée classé dans le top 10 des podcasts Apple, et a remporté un Ambie Award for Best Wellness or Relationships Podcast. Elle est également l’autrice d’une newsletter sexo. Suivez-la sur @enagoski.

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