Name: Take Me with You When You Go
ISBN: 9780525580997

David Levithan

Jennifer Niven

From the New York Times bestselling authors of All the Bright Places and Every Day comes a story of hope, siblinghood, and finding your home in the people who matter the most. Subject: You. Missing. Ezra Ahern wakes up one day to find his older sister, Bea, gone. No note, no sign, nothing but an email address hidden somewhere only he would find it. Ezra never expected to be left behind with their abusive stepfather and their neglectful mother--how is he supposed to navigate life without Bea? Bea Ahern already knew she needed to get as far away from home as possible But a message in her inbox changes everything, and she finds herself alone in a new city--without Ez, without a real plan--chasing someone who might not even want to be found. As things unravel at home for Ezra, Bea will confront secrets about their past that will forever change the way they think about their family. Together and apart, broken by abuse but connected by love, this brother and sister must learn to trust themselves before they can find a way back to each other.

Take Me with You When You Go

Margarida Santos

The trouble with worrying so much is that sometimes you worry something into coming true.

It's wonderful when someone else sees you, the real you, but--and this may be the most profound thing I've ever thought or said-maybe the important thing is seeing yourself.

to be quite honest, i didnt expect a lot from this book since it was YA. i also didn’t have a lot of thoughts pertaining to the story.

it covered heavy topics such as abusive households, and i’d like to say that the authors wrote the main characters quite well, in terms of them being realistic. they definitely had flaws since their upbringing wasn’t so nice but despite of it all, i liked how the siblings cared about each other. my only ick with Bea was that she was a bit too selfish like… she never properly broke up with her boyfriend. like yes, he wasn’t the best person out there but it was still very shitty of her, and how fast she moved on with some hot college dude she met on the road. i mean… i still understood her as a character but personally, i enjoyed Ezra’s story more since he was the one left behind and somehow had to face the consequences of his sister’s actions, when he already has so much on his hands.

as for the writing style, it was interesting to be narrated through email form but it was also a flaw because there were some scenes that seemed better if it were written in a normal 3rd person perspective.

overall, the book wasn’t that bad, i still enjoyed it but i just wasn’t as attached or invested.

jinny

to be quite honest, i didnt expect a lot from this book since it was YA. i also didn’t have a lot of thoughts pertaining to the story.

it covered heavy topics such as abusive households, and i’d like to say that the authors wrote the main characters quite well, in terms of them being realistic. they definitely had flaws since their upbringing wasn’t so nice but despite of it all, i liked how the siblings cared about each other. my only ick with Bea was that she was a bit too selfish like… she never properly broke up with her boyfriend. like yes, he wasn’t the best person out there but it was still very shitty of her, and how fast she moved on with some hot college dude she met on the road. i mean… i still understood her as a character but personally, i enjoyed Ezra’s story more since he was the one left behind and somehow had to face the consequences of his sister’s actions, when he already has so much on his hands.

as for the writing style, it was interesting to be narrated through email form but it was also a flaw because there were some scenes that seemed better if it were written in a normal 3rd person perspective.

overall, the book wasn’t that bad, i still enjoyed it but i just wasn’t as attached or invested.

some people are not meant to be parents… girl i was so angry reading the exchange between ezra and his mother or whatever the fuck she’s supposed to be. 

i’m glad they escaped that hell-hole, they are so brave :,)

ayoni

some people are not meant to be parents… girl i was so angry reading the exchange between ezra and his mother or whatever the fuck she’s supposed to be. 

i’m glad they escaped that hell-hole, they are so brave :,)

Bria

** spoiler alert **
           i personally could never leave my little sister in a situation like that but that's me 😬
i'm glad that ezra made it through though

“It’s wonderful when someone else sees you, the real you, but—and this may be the most profound thing I’ve ever thought or said—maybe the important thing is seeing yourself.”

Subject: You. Missing. Ezra wakes one day to find his sister gone. No note, no sign, nothing but an email address hidden somewhere only he would find it. Escaping their toxic home life, Bea finds herself alone in a new city - without friends, without a real plan - chasing someone who might not even want to be found. As things unravel at home for Ezra, Bea confronts secrets about their past that will forever change the way they think about their family. Separated by distance but connected by love, this brother and sister must learn to trust themselves before they can find a way back to each other. From the New York Times bestselling authors of All the Bright Places and Every Day comes a story of hope, family, and finding your true home in the people who matter the most.

Take Me With You When You Go

Melissa Palmer

Excellent

A heartbreaking but hopeful young adult read. Two siblings are in an abusive home and trying to find a way out. But they're really finding a way back to each other.

brianna

I liked the book just fine until the plot twist. It didn't do anything for me and I am really sad because I really liked the beginning of the book. 
Also, the characters just felt kinda flat? It felt like they kept repeating the same sentences over and over again. A little tiring to be honest.

2.5 stars

It’s a whole ride… you learn that sometimes the only thing that you need is you, and that you know yourself.

Avery Baumel

i have such an aversion to email-only stories so that's the -1, but the actual story and writing were both excellent

Mijs Franssen

*finished at 00:11 so officially on 2 dec*

Wow. Unique, beautiful, good characters, writing style was so great, and the story was haunting, infuriating, sad and hopeful.

Might be one of my favorites of the year!

Ruby Kennedy

I loved this book! The cover art is amazing, and the plot and subjects that this book talks about are too. It makes me want to check on every person I see and ask how their lives are at home, just in case they need any help. At first, I was worried that the book would be less interesting because it's all written in emails, but it actually makes it a little more raw and interesting because it's deep conversations and important discussions between a brother and sister.

Tegan Anderson

I wanted to take some time to sit with this book before writing this review, but I received an eARC in exchange for a review and the book is released at the end of the month so I am pressed for time. So, as a disclaimer, I will say that these are my fresh undeveloped thoughts, written an hour or so after finishing reading.
Take Me With You When You Go is described as a story of hope, siblinghood, and finding your home in the people who matter most, so I think I will break this review down into those categories.

Siblinghood
The thing that I love about this book is that it is a sibling story above anything else. Bea has run away from her broken home, leaving behind only a secret email address to communicate with Ezra, her younger brother. The siblings have always had each other for solace when their home doesn’t feel safe, and that doesn’t change.
We learn about the entirety of their relationship from these emails, starting from the day Bea disappears. They exchange memories from growing up, more recent events that triggered Bea to leave, and she eventually finds out about events that occurred before Ezra was even born.
To me, a lot of this background information felt forced as I was caught up in what would realistically be written in an email. I understand why the authors chose this format as it makes the most logistical sense for the plot, but the infodumping written beneath an email address didn’t really work for me personally and quickly felt tiresome. It also removes a lot of the emotion from the moments that are being described as the characters are looking back on them with less connection. It made the side characters extremely disconnected from the story and two dimensional. I wanted to be with the characters rather than dwelling in their memories.
This point is specifically about Ezra rather than the theme of siblinghood but I’ve already committed to this format and don’t know where else to put it. I like that Ezra’s sexuality isn’t the focal point of the book. (view spoiler)[He’s gay, and there’s moments where he reflects on his first kiss and the realisation about his sexuality, and the book shows his relationship with his boyfriend, but the focus still remains on the siblings’ relationship and their home. (hide spoiler)]

Finding Your Home
This book is an incredibly raw and honest portrait of parental abuse inflicted on the lives of the people they were supposed to keep safe. When Bea disappears, Ezra is left behind to deal with the fallout in addition to the regular emotional abuse he is experiencing.
As the abuse becomes increasingly physical, Ezra seeks an escape through Joe – Bea’s ex(?) boyfriend who is worried about her – and his boyfriend Terrence, who I believe is black and Christian. This book explores the dynamics of these new homes very well: (view spoiler)[refuge with someone who is almost doing it as a favour to someone they love, and safety with someone who is your found family. There’s also some scenes I adore where Terrence has to admit that Ezra is more than just his ‘special friend’, and how Ezra has to adapt to being part of Terrence’s family. (hide spoiler)]

Hope
This is the part that has left me with so many mixed feelings about this book. In my opinion, there is very little hope until the final few pages when the book feels as if it has reached its conclusion. I almost wanted an epilogue that carried out some of the promises written in the final emails, but I don’t think it would make sense written in this format.
This lack of hope throughout the book dulled the impact of the emotional scenes: it’s very easy to become either overwhelmed or underwhelmed (or, in my case, both) with emotional scenes when they’re constant and there’s no lighter scenes to contrast or complement them. In many places, it felt like the story was dragging and wasn’t really going anywhere. The plot twists and big reveals and climaxes all felt the same as the siblings recounting the bland parts of their day.

Overall, I would give this book a 3.5 star rating. There were a lot of moments that caught my attention, but they were eventually overshadowed by a tiresome format and darkness that completely swallowed up the light.
Rating: ★★★☆☆ (3.5 stars)

Kath Lau

trigger warning: parental abuse/neglect

Bea runs away leaving her younger brother behind at home with their neglectful mother and abusive step-father. Bea leaves Ezra an email where they can secretly communicate. Through their emails we learn about Bea's reason for running away and how Ezra gets through his days without Bea.

I was very excited when I first learned about this book. Two of my favorite authors writing a book together? Dreams do come true! The story is told through letters (emails to be exact) and it worked very well for me. I thought it made the story more personal and engaging. Bea seems selfish at first but she really cares for Ezra so much and will do anything for him. Ezra is an incredible character as well as his very supportive boyfriend, Terrence. I liked the sibling relationship in this book. It's not perfect but it's real and very relatable. I also liked the surprising twists though the unexpected romance was unnecessary in my opinion. Overall, this is a very touching and heartfelt story.

trigger warning: parental abuse/neglect


Bea runs away leaving her younger brother behind at home with their neglectful mother and abusive step-father. Bea leaves Ezra an email where they can secretly communicate. Through their emails we learn about Bea's reason for running away and how Ezra gets through his days without Bea.

I was very excited when I first learned about this book. Two of my favorite authors writing a book together? Dreams do come true! The story is told through letters (emails to be exact) and it worked very well for me. I thought it made the story more personal and engaging. Bea seems selfish at first but she really cares for Ezra so much and will do anything for him. Ezra is an incredible character as well as his very supportive boyfriend, Terrence. I liked the sibling relationship in this book. It's not perfect but it's real and very relatable. I also liked the surprising twists though the unexpected romance was unnecessary in my opinion. Overall, this is a very touching and heartfelt story.


  Disclaimer: Thanks to PRH and the author for providing a free digital review copy via NetGalley. This did not affect my overall opinion of the book.

Issi 

Sammie Camilleri

From the New York Times bestselling authors of All the Bright Places and Every Day comes a story of hope, siblinghood, and finding your home in the people who matter the most. Subject: You. Missing. Ezra Ahern wakes up one day to find his older sister, Bea, gone. No note, no sign, nothing but an email address hidden somewhere only he would find it. Ezra never expected to be left behind with their abusive stepfather and their neglectful mother—how is he supposed to navigate life without Bea? Bea Ahern already knew she needed to get as far away from home as possible But a message in her inbox changes everything, and she finds herself alone in a new city—without Ez, without a real plan—chasing someone who might not even want to be found. As things unravel at home for Ezra, Bea will confront secrets about their past that will forever change the way they think about their family. Together and apart, broken by abuse but connected by love, this brother and sister must learn to trust themselves before they can find a way back to each other.